“Children are the silent, unseen and unheard victims of domestic violence” The organisation Women's Aid calls for the association between child abuse and domestic violence to be recognised in new child protection structures and domestic violence legislation.
Quotes from a number of domestic violence victims have been included in the press release indicating the huge problem present. “I wanted to leave, but he told me time and time again, “If you ever leave me I’ll make sure you never see your daughter again.” Alison tells the story of a woman scared for her own safety and that of her children and she is not alone.
1658 incidents of child abuse were recorded by calls to the national Women’s Aid National Free phone Helpline in 2010. Abusive tactics that were used against children included smacking and hitting children, sometimes with household items. Physical and sexual abuse towards children was also reported. Incidents of verbal abuse where the abusers shouted in the children’s faces and manipulated them to make them side with the abuser were also described.
The Director of Women’s Aid Margaret Martin has urged the government to pay attention to the inherent link between domestic violence and child abuse “the government needs to apply the best practice principle of protecting the child through the protection and support of the non-abusive parent.”
Ms Martin was speaking at the launch of the 16 Days of Action Campaign. It is a global initiative that concentrates on gender violence. The international 16 day campaign will run from 25th November, UN Day Opposing Violence against Women to 10th December, Human Rights Day. The 16 Days of Actions began in 1991 and since then over 3400 organisations in 164 countries have participated.
The director of the organisation spoke out about the agony endured by those suffering from domestic violence. “It is heartbreaking to listen to women, who with their children, are living in a state of fear. A quote from Alison who is a victim of domestic violence highlights this predicament “the turning point came when my son said to me one day ‘Mammy I’m afraid of my Daddy’. I knew I had to leave.”
Ms Martin revealed that she is gravely worried about the effects that the budget of 2012 will have on the services that Women’s Aid provides. Reducing services when there are so many victims in need would result in an increased risk for both woman and children who are suffering abuse. Local community groups are generally the first point of contact and they offer a link to specialist support groups. Women’s Aid is a strong support for these groups. In light of imminent restructuring and funding problems their role in tackling domestic violence may be jeopardised.
Women’s Aid relies heavily on donations from the public and you can help by going to www.womensaid.ie or sending donations direct to Women’s Aid, Everton House, 47 Old Cabra Road, Dublin 7. The Women’s Aid Helpline is open from 10am-10pm seven days a week. The number is 1800 341 900 and it is Ireland’s only national free phone service.


